Every phone number from someone you're dating gets a live health status based on how many other people are also talking to them right now.
1-2 pings
You're likely the only one they're talking to. Normal early dating.
3-5 pings
They're talking to a few people. Typical roster behavior in modern dating.
6-10 pings
Juggling a lot of people. Unlikely to be serious about any one person.
10+ pings
Major red flag. Possible catfish, romance scammer, or fake profile.
Pinged is built for dating — not stalking. Every feature has a built-in expiration to keep data fresh, protect privacy, and prevent misuse.
Still talking to that person from Hinge? Tap 'Still Talking' daily to keep your ping active. If you stop checking in, it drops automatically — because if you're not talking anymore, there's no reason to monitor.
You can monitor someone you're dating for up to 30 days. That's enough time to see if they're exclusively talking to you — without enabling long-term surveillance. After 30 days, the ping auto-expires and a cooldown begins.
After you stop monitoring someone you're dating, you must wait 30 days before monitoring them again — but you can still search and monitor their status anytime. This prevents obsessive monitoring while still letting you stay informed and re-check if you start talking again later.
If 3+ people independently report someone for ghosting, using burner numbers, or catfishing within a 90-day window, they earn a warning badge. These are patterns — not one bad date. If someone is ghosting 3+ people in 90 days, the dating community deserves to know. Badges expire after 10 days.
Spotted someone you're dating still active on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Messenger, or Instagram? Flag their number. Other people dating that person can see the flags. Each flag expires after 5 days and is locked — you can't unflag or re-flag until it expires.
Every account must verify a real phone number. One phone per account — this prevents exes or trolls from creating fake accounts to manipulate someone's status.
The person you're dating never knows you checked their number. Your identity stays completely hidden. No names, no photos — just peace of mind while you're getting to know someone.
See 30-day trend lines for anyone you're dating. Spot patterns like weekend spikes (club nights?) or sudden surges when they need space.
Every dating app flag is visible immediately — even a single report. Each flag expires 5 days after it was placed. Example: 1 Instagram flag on Monday expires Saturday. A Messenger flag on Tuesday expires Sunday. Flags stack and fall off independently, so you always see what's current.
Pinged — The dating safety tool that shows you who else is talking to the person you're dating.
100% anonymous. Built for modern dating. No names or photos — ever.